thanks for stopping by my thread so much...it's nice to know people are listening to my rantings and questions and/or comments sometimes make me think differently about things.
So, in taking a glimpse over your thread it appears that your h is still not home and still playing the "I don't want to be with you card" acting a little strange? possibly persuing you?
If what you are doing now is working I'd not change it yet...don't start calling him unless the absolute need arises (and that should only be an emergency with the kids) continue to be pleasent and mysterious with him...for some reason they like this crap though it confuses the hell out of them. Don't worry that he'll get the wrong message he knows who you are and what you want stating so or asking his intentions again may just set his aparent interest off again.
I went through a similar stage before my h returned...I called him silly monkee (think there's a thread of mine with that title floating around in cyberspace) the random calls just kept comming and comming...sometimes I'd answer sometimes I wouldn't.
There comes a point when we have to realize that it's our game just as much if not more than it is theirs. We have more control over the situation than we at times think. In the end though they may have been the one to initially walk out and/or find op...we do have our say in how things go.
