Originally Posted by ozman
But I can say that I am happy. Which is awesome. My happiness is not tied to her.
What is your happiness tied to? Others here are struggling, they are reading your thread, and may be able to gain some insight from you.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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