So the question remains. What do I do now? Is filing for D before or after lease is up have any consequences.
If I file does this mean I’m not standing for marriage?
Steve’s statement “the worst thing a human can do is wait for another human to act”. Is still ringing in my ears. Or..... my eyes.....or something
I find this very frustrating how you take one sentence from an entire post, paragraph, or conversation and use that one statement out of context. Steve sent you a very informative post, and he was trying to tell you to know what you want before doing some action.... just to be doing something. He said don't do anything until you know what you want. When you know what you want......then don't wait for someone else to act on it. He did not tell you to file for a D, and he didn't tell you not to file. He was telling you to make up your mind which camp you wanted to follow.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
