It has been a long time since I heard the "first day/last day" lecture, but the premise was to live each day like it could be your last as well as live it as the first day of the rest of your life. I should listen to the CD again.
Life is too short to not enjoy every moment. Even the moments that most think suck.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712