This also confuses me because of Steve’s comments about “don’t wait for the other person to take action”. That I should be the one who takes action
Hi Ozman,
Originally Posted by Steve
So do nothing until you are sure what YOU want. And then go get it. The worst thing a human can do is sit back and wait for another human to take action.
Steve's quote isn't about who ends up acting first--it's about deciding for yourself what you want, then actively taking whatever steps are necessary to get there. When the steps are clear, anyway.
Originally Posted by Ozman
“what about separation instead of filing for D”.
Oz, you keep saying you may not have many years left. Is that what would truly make you happy if these are your final years--being married, but living separately? If so, yes, live your dream! I worry a bit when I hear this, that it's more like, "Hmm.. if I do this.. and I wait long enough.. will she do that?"
