Hello Scout

As others have said. No, you did not drive him away.

He is in crisis, and that is a slow moving train wreck - and you aren’t driving it.

Originally Posted by scout12
I begin to question if there is anything of value in this marriage worth saving.

This is normal.

It is good to see accurately.

It’s good to challenge.

Be accurate; just ensure you don’t rewrite your history.

DnJ

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.