Slow and Steady

[Jac12]

Thanks AS. It's all so interesting how it plays out. The timelines, the scripts, the fog...I can see that she has lots of personal work to do still and even though I've always thought there were some inner issues she needed to deal with I didn't really expect that we'd have a chance of getting things back. Now I can see that the chance is greater and I need to be careful not to get my expectations up and jump in too fast.

The other thing I've noticed in our discussions is that the only thing that was going to help early in our sitch was for me to give her space and GAL. So for any newbies here as tough as it is you have to be strong enough to let go as soon as you get that BD and let them figure it out for themselves. Everything I did from months 0-6 had no effect on her whatsoever bc she didn't care about anything.

Anyways, she sent me a nice text this morning wishing me well in a meeting I had. Another new thing that hasn't happened in months.