There was a time when H use to kiss me when he let and tell me that he loves me. I stopped and then he stopped. He would initiate sometime and I would initiate other times, but neither of us do it now. We haven't even said I love you in about 3wks. I am not sure if stopping helped or hurt me. When we were doing those things we weren't ML. When those things stopped we started ML. Strange I know.

Nitaf