Slowly, I actually took time to set goals in my journal last nite. I don't have it with me so I am going to wing it!
Goals
1. I will smile and laugh more.(H said I always greeted him as a grouch.)
2. I will ride my bike with S atleast 2x's a week.
3. I will sign up for a summer class to keep me occupied.
4. I will let H know when he has done a good job and I am proud.
5.My goal for the day is to have him give me a nice Thank You for his card
You know I never had anyone tell me that they were proud of my accomplishments. If you never receive it than you don't give it out. I did not notice until H pointed it out after he left????????? What good was it then?
The funny thing is because of my traumatic childhood I always shower my S with wonderful praise when I am proud. Why would I do it with S and not H??????????
Positives 1. H mowed the lawn 2.H spoke to my neighbor and asked him if he could let his company know not to park in my driveway when I am not home because I shouldn't have to keep asking him to move his car. 3.H is calling for silly reasons. We talked and laughed a bit. 4.H asked me if I were goind to his neices fashion show? I was surprised because he will be there too. 5.H wants to make sure that he supports my brother becaase he is having his 1st baby. 6.H calls my siblings on a regular basis.
My LL is AOS so I would help do H's spreadsheets, type his papers, and go with him to look at houses(it was a realestate license that he got last year)as support and he actually needed WORDS OF AFFIRMATION! Proof that if you don't know a persons LL they don't feel appreciated and loved
My goal for the day is to have him give me a nice Thank You for his card
