Originally Posted by crdcheck
Question: what does everyone do re: social media? Neither of us post much but there has been more of D4 lately. Candidly, part of it for me is to show others that I'm a great dad and her what she's missing out on. Not good reasons, I know, but I also know that it helps to memorialize her childhood so some posting is reasonable. But once D is finalized, do I unfriend W all over the place or still give her a view in?


I'm still "friends" with my XW on FB. Neither of us post much there either, and neither of us post about our R's on there at all. So I never felt the need to block or "unfriend" her. Some WAS's just go nuts posting stuff that seems engineered to get under the LBS's skin, if that's the case I wouldn't hesitate to unfriend her if it bothers you. It's your call.

Like LH said there is a feature where you can hide someone's posts from your feed while remaining friends with them. They don't know you've changed the setting, all that happens is you just quit seeing stuff they post unless you bother to go to their profile and look. I've never used it on my XW but have before on my GF, LOL!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57