Jac, I've seen a lot of sitches play out here and the sitches that recon do follow a path like the one that you're on. I'd say your chances are very good that she's going to want to recon at some point. It's very important for you to be patient, keep giving her time and space, and keep GAL'ing and being the lighthouse. What I am seeing from you is that you are not breaking into full-blown pursuit so good job, because that would send her running! Keep it up, you're doing great. She's starting to come out of the fog but she may have months of personal work ahead before she sorts out what she wants as far as an R with you.
Always be mindful that you cannot fix her. Your job is to listen and validate, that's it. Don't make counseling recommendations or medication suggestions or anything like that. "I don't think I can go on medication!" Bad response- "Oh but it can really help, lots of people take A/D's and have no issues." Good response- "It sounds like you have fears about going on A/D's, is that how you feel?" Help her navigate her feelings.
