Been re reading the detachment thread, think this is where my focus should be.
This morning I receive a phone call from WAW, saying she had been thinking about a coach trip to London with the kids to see the Xmas lights etc and invited me along as she thought it would be good for the kids. She asked if I was free to come.
I replied I would need to check but that it sounded like a good idea for the kids.
She then started talking about how she is struggling with the house and needs to get a cleaner I just let her talk about it, and validated.
2 hours later I receive a message, that she's been thinking about the trip and no longer thinks it's a good idea, she doesn't feel comfortable with it. I reply, that's ok.
Then she's immediately back to messages about work " how are the orders going today"?
