I totally get it, especially about the family and friends. Life is short and there is no reason to spend time with people who are jerks and/or who bring you down unless you have to. Maybe there will be a time when you're OK with it but I don't think you should force yourself to spend time with people who aren't worth your time and energy, especially right now when you have a lot on your plate between work, kids, and figuring out R with H!


Me (46) H (42)
M:14 T:18, D9 & D11
4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs
9/20 - present: R and piecing