Hi Remo. Welcome. I've read your post twice; what is the 'bomb' W dropped? What did she say or do specifically? Did something happen, an event, a change in life, that that may have triggered her to react a certain way? (kids? family members? career? ) Is it possible she is just burnt out?
Regarding rings, that's a personal choice I'd say. I still wear my band & my engagement ring occasionally. I wear them no differently I guess. (My H took his off before bd, said "it was too tight, bothered him". He would always wear it when we went out, then I'd remind him if he forgot. Then I stopped reminding him, as I thought he knews or should know, & I had expressed my disappointment when he didn't wear it). Sorry to blah blah on.... personal choice.
As for sex? You don’t have to have casual sex as your first choice. Right? Take care of yourself, by yourself. That's my opinion. Do you have an open marriage where under 'normal' circumstances this would be okay? Think about your actions and consequences. Just my opinion.
Off topic: location/ time of year ? How were things last year? (Ontario Canada or other?)
Keep posting .
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
