I think this is a very individual decision and also depends on whether you are able to co-parent with her or have to end up parallel parenting.
I hadn't heard of "parallel parenting" until now, interesting. I'm not sure what the major differences are, though. We're divorcing so it's not like we are spending time discussing non-D4 items. From what I'm seeing it sounds like the major differences between the two are that parallel is more rigid, communications in parallel are done in writing, and that interactions are limited in parallel. Is there anything else? If that's the case then I think that parallel aligns best with DB.
Originally Posted by rooskers
I can only tell you that my XW blocked me from Facebook and I likewise blocked her. I made the decision not out of revenge but because it helped me to detach. The ultimate deciding factor was D13 said she did not want her mother to have access to what we were doing. So my Facebook page is about my adventures with D13 and I make sure to delete any comments or material that talk about divorce or my previous relationship. My Facebook page is a public journal for my family and friends only, my XW is not part of my family and definitely not a friend. Maybe things will change in the future.
Good points to consider. D4 thinks that our situation is normal so no opinion from her.
M(35), W(35), D(4) M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019 W moved out Aug 13 House sold Sept 25 Papers signed Nov 15 Divorce finalized Dec 12
