I cheated over a span of two years (though had never cheated before that), came clean in mid-2018, we agreed to work together, I took a local job (cheating was done when I was on the road) in April, she BD'd me in May, she moved out in Aug, final papers signed (post-mediation) in Nov.
M(35), W(35), D(4) M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019 W moved out Aug 13 House sold Sept 25 Papers signed Nov 15 Divorce finalized Dec 12