Orig thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2853370&page=1
Second thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2856505&page=1
Third thread: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2862693

Quick recap:

I cheated over a span of two years (though had never cheated before that), came clean in mid-2018, we agreed to work together, I took a local job (cheating was done when I was on the road) in April, she BD'd me in May, she moved out in Aug, final papers signed (post-mediation) in Nov.


M(35), W(35), D(4)
M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019
W moved out Aug 13
House sold Sept 25
Papers signed Nov 15
Divorce finalized Dec 12