My XH left all his belongings..He took bare essentials He left all his tools and drills..( he was always very mechanical and could fix anything) He left papers and only came to get papers of importance when he was watching kids..and I was not here
like the deed to his motorcycle
He left his ss card, fancy boots and expensive shirts..and never took any of it much of it went in the dump
Funny how he took the salt/pepper shakers Really they make little sense, even to this day, I cant figure my XH out
What I can tell you is their lives usually take a turn for the worse They sometimes get hooked intio drugs, prescriptions, alcohol and that takes them further down because unless they are actively seeking Growth and healing...they spiral down remember it is the unresolved issues from his past that lead him to this state-
continue to free yourself work on healing and self care
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
