Thanks Meridith and Nervanna. I try to validate S's feelings . I am going to find a child psychologist for him to talk to. It just hurts because we as moms think we can always make it better.
I felt good by the time I left work. S's B-day is today. We are having his favorite dinner and I am getting him a cell phone and some playstation games.
H kept calling me yesterday, about 4x's in a row. He had a different question each time. I was very indifferent and cool. The 5th time he called I didn't even answer the phone......