The legal separation is under way so I will have peace of mind once that's done. There's a mandatory twelve month waiting period before divorce can be filed. But it's really just a formality after the legal separation.
I've been reading about truth darts. Is there a consensus on the wisdom of exposing the affair? If H questions why I'm not allowing him in the house, i'm going to tell him it's because I know about OW, and that I know it was at least emotional with her before he left me, and I won't allow someone who treats me with disrespect into my home. I've also seen others on these boards tell their spouse that they will expose the affair to family/friends unless they confess themselves. What are thoughts on this?
