Another day.
Went out last night, told my kids I was going out for dinner and drinks with some friends.
I had to stop by the house 1st to drop my s12 phone off.

He invites me in to see the birds, I check with wife and she says it's ok.
Kept a real Pma, laughing with the kids, Wife sits on sofa refusing to even look or engage with me.
I leave keeping things positive.

This morning receive a message at 08.30am
Her: will be over at 10.30 to collect rest of kids things, can you do all the orders today, I can't work all day as I have the kids.
My phone was off but replied at 11am
"Phone ran out, back at home now, all the kids stuff is ready whenever you are. I may go into work later this afternoon.

No response

She turns up at the door with d6 at 12.00.
I invite her in, offer her tea, she declines, she asks if she can borrow a cigarette.
I say sure, and start packing the kids gear into the car.
Again all Pma with me and d6.
Again she's barely speaking to me and avoiding any eye contact with me.

She leaves, feel I handled the interaction well, but really hurts and feels like I'm projecting that I'm not bothered about our MR.


Bd August 2019 after 16years
S 12
D 6