So I was all 20mins ago with enjoying my picnic and projecting a Pma.

Check in on the joint account and it's clear she went out for dinner and drinks ( telling myself it's just her friends)

Money into that account was from a joint welfare claim and agreed was for bills, kids and food only.

Itching to raise it now, will raise hell I'm sure. Or sit on it for a few days and get my wording straight?

Bd August 2019 after 16years
S 12
D 6