Just another daily update, Needing to get my thoughts out rather than swimming in my head,
Zero communication this morning, usually a number of messages about work.
Then this afternoon a couple of work messages from her, 1st was asking if I could pick up daughter as she had so much to do
( I figured she had either attended a legal meeting or a victim support group, I could see from my end that she had done next to nothing in getting online orders out over the last 2 days.
Made the choice to wait 45 minutes before responding, replied I can pick her up, but have to somewhere until 2.30. If I pick her up will you run orders to post office tmrw?
She agreed, then all further messages were extremely cold and business like from her.
Realized that perhaps I have been far to friendly and positive in our message exchanges so far. Been trying to just give off a Pma, but also feel that she perhaps thinks I think everything is normal between us.
Maybe I just need to dial back a bit, stay positive but not too friendly.
Another day of repressing urges for a r talk.
Today I have mostly been wanting to hold my hands up and let her know I take accountability for my half of the relationship issues and at same time raise her half that she is glossing over, highlight some of her controlling behaviour
Sure that would all go down well lol!
Seriously, is there a time to raise these things, is it way way down the road?
