I am going to suggest to H that he take my car Friday nite and I take his pick up truck. S and I can then go bike riding Saturday morning.
I have been preety much either a loner or with H for over half of my life so therefore I need to reconnect with some folks to have some company in the evenings or find things to do on my own. I really love to entertain. I wil start having more BBQ's and such. I like to host art shows, home interior shows, etc........
I am very close to H's family and he is also close to mine. Is it ok to still do things with the in-laws or is that considered persuing? My in-laws call me all of the time and like to spend time w/me. They are annoyed with H , but I have told them to listen to him, even if they don't agree. It makes him feel lonely because they all support me. H does not have a problem with visiting or talking to my siblings! My sister will casually mention, your H called me today. I will say, what did he want? She says, nothing. He just called to talk.
He also made it a point ot find out if I were going to his neices fashion show. I said , yes. He said, me too.
