Girl - you might not like this but my advice is to file for divorce immediately.
You make a six figure salary and he’s in danger of becoming unemployed? If he loses his job before you’re divorced YOU could end up paying HIM spousal support.
I’d get the paperwork rolling ASAP to avoid that indignity. Divorce papers are just about the financial/business end of things. It’s not an obstacle to reconciliation in and of itself. Protect yourself financially.
