I just met a man who just celebrated his 59th wedding anniversary. When I asked him how he did it? Never give up he replied
In my career I meet couples who have been married 50+ years all the time and I always ask them how.
Please don’t confuse never give up with chasing after someone who isn’t in it.
HE didn’t do it. They did it as a couple. Your question should have been how did THEY do it? Because one person cannot make a marriage last 50+ years. They both never gave up