Running out of time ... one month left! (part 2)

[rooskers]

Your guidance is:

-stop all and any communication with wife that isn't absolutely necessary.
-stay out of W and children's relationship unless it becomes abusive and if it does handle that using a lawyer and law enforcement
-work on yourself
-work on your relationship with children
-work on being the stability your children need
-make sure you are financial secure (no joint credit cards or other loans)
-GAL
-detach for your own sanity

Why:

my W seems more upset at me

She is and there is nothing you can do about it because I doubt even she knows why right now.

she interrupted a few times to ask me things, she seemed more dismissive against me, Yesterday she just wouldn't even say hi, She refused to, she yelled even more. She said "we're not friends", She said she was not sorry to tell me what she's telling me

Her actions and words seem to align. She has zero respect for you!

I did finally get a bit upset and tell her she's lacking empathy and is being extremely rude

She is lacking empathy, is being rude, doesn't have respect for you, chooses to see only the negative, chooses to be angry with you, chooses to damage her relationship with her children, chooses to spend her money unwisely. So the question becomes what are you going to choose because you can't control her only you.

I expect my W to be super upset at this, she thinks I'm delaying the whole process.

If it is the best thing for you or for the children you don't need to care.