Women fall in love in a man's presence, men tend to realize they are in love in a woman's absence. And sometimes all he needs is a little time to make that realization
You might think about how this applies in your sitch.
It is such a brain twister to think about this in my sitch. I have thought about this and many other similar topics throughout the last year. Although we are both women, ww is far more masculine than I am. I tease her that she is a metrosexual lesbian because she cares more about fashion that I do though! It is an interesting dynamic because she likes to have a more "dominant" role. She opens doors, pulls my chair out, her arm around me and not vice versa, etc. In private, however, she is sooo much more of a girly girl. She likes to be pampered. We'll just say she is the little spoon. These interesting dynamics offer up much confusion when thinking about the man/woman perspective. Is she the type to fall in love in my presence, or the type to need time and space for realization?
I don't think there is a clear answer here and, truthfully, I am trying to change my thinking about how any actions I take influence her thoughts or feelings. I am, however, also trying to become the diamond. Whether or not we move into a place of reconciliation, I want to be the shinny rock. I read this quote and it made me happy so I will share it with all of you:
"YOU, queen, are a fantastic, sexy, intelligent, unique, rock star and anyone that has the privilege of being around you is a lucky b*tch."
I think more of us need to empower one another.
On your topic of attraction v seduction I am still trying to figure out methods of seduction. Again, not with my WW in mind, but just as a new skill for my own arsenal.
Kristin
LBW 32 - me WW 31 T 7 M 4 No Kids 4 dogs
Separated 1y Navigating the mine field and GAL with or without
