Hey doodler.. she’s very much into me, not seeing other people, etc.. the only reason she doesn’t want to R is because of where she is in her divorce process.. I’m in that same place, would R but don’t want to start out as a rebound, for that reason we both fight to keep the feelings held back. But she treats me like a king and does her best to be understanding, but there is still pain there, she said my texts about ending it broke her heart but she knows it may come to that.
Holy cr@p! I didn't understand the relationship. I get it now. You two are in a close relationship, both physically and psychologically and both of you don't really want it that way until all of the stars align properly, but both of you really do want it. You're both in love but fighting it tooth and nail.
I don't think it's a great idea to be in close relationship until after the divorce is done and over, but dude, you're in a close relationship with her now. You are the rebound guy. You either have to accept it and go with it or figure something out.
