(Examples of ways in which your experience with the coach might be affecting your choices in men: - feeling comfortable with a man who is critical or abusive and “not being attracted” to the nice guys who love you with all your flaws.
- choosing a man who is controlling because that feels familiar to the coaching relationship
- choosing a man who doesn’t treat you as an equal
- choosing a narcissist who only values you so long as you make him look good (they can be very charming at first and make you feel great, until god forbid you gain weight or become ill or in some other way fail to feed their image and ego)
- choosing a man who is likely to abandon you as the coach did, subconsciously reproducing that trauma
- putting up with bad behavior in the relationship out of fear of abandonment
