The process needs to move along at the pace it was meant to.
Love that. Hit the nail right on the head with that one.
You sound really good. Full of acceptance and understanding.
So why does H think you’re suffering? (You certainly don’t sound like it.)
Because he is.
He will see the world through his sad suffering lens. He will project upon people his story lines of suffering or faults or deeds, whatever it is to ease himself. And in the moments when he does realize how well you are doing he probably wishes it was not so. Misery does love company.
Life is good indeed.
Keep shinning girl.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.