Originally Posted by Jdevast
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2870433&page=11

It's a weird revelation to think I can't trust her, I guess in her mind I'm no longer somebody important to her, she has been going on about having a private life since bd, and early on she admitted she felt she had to delete texts and messages in some babble about no longer trusting me.

Part of me just wants to ask her straight up "can I trust you?"

Because at the end of the day all the early spoken agreements about the seperation, splitting of assets etc, which were all amicable have given way to accusations of abuse, asking me to leave etc etc.


I'm the same way with my WW. Just blatant lies to the face. I keep wanting to ask why are you lying and what is your motive, because I find myself spiraling about getting blind sided / stabbed in the back.


Originally Posted by Jdevast
Further question, sorry folks.
I haven't completed DB book yet.
Am I in LRT situation right now , is LRT what I should be doing or am at some earlier stage.

All feels very final and doom and gloom right now, but then again I'm pretty impatient about all this


Honestly, by the time most people are desperate enough to find this forum, the MR is already in LRT sitch. Same can be said for most people that go see an MC, the MR is already hanging on by the nails.


Last edited by LovingIt; 11/14/19 12:25 AM.