Originally Posted by peacetoday
Hi

Sorry you find yourself here
Welcome to the land Of MLC


Thank you PT. As much as it stinks, I'm glad to have the help of people like yourself.

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the Mlcers will get a bit crazy during D time as he sees he is losing a lot
Most are also terrible parents and they will try to BLAME us for stuff and justify their choices because we did or did not do...
MLC is usually said to be caused by unresolved childhood trauma so maybe QLC is the same
Im not sure but it makes sense
if this is true then you will have little control over this situation and your H will have to figure out his own healing process or NOT..ands usually not


He laughed at the implication he was suffering in any way. Jokingly said "I don't have any childhood trauma." But he also said he is not 100% happy and is seeing a counsellor. I hope he figures it out eventually.


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