Yes, he will be with me this weekend. I am going to have a talk w/H today about having him every other weekend at his moms. I am just going to calmly say that although I understand that being at parents house is not the ideal sitch, your son needs to spend time w/u every other weekend. You don't have to spend it in the house. Take him out. Enjoy the weather. If you are not in the house, they can not boss you 2 around.
It is amazing to me that since he left he pays attention to things having to do with S that he never paid attention to b4. He never use to buy his clothes. That was always my job. He is buying him a bunch of stuff and taking him to all of his basketball games, but not really spending any quality time w/him. I told him it takes more than that to be a father. I think the guilt is making him spend ridiculous $$$$$$$$$ on S. S has caught on and now just asks his dad for whatever he wants!!!!!!! S tells me that he really doesn't want to spend the weekend w/him though. He said, he would rather be home with me. He won't call his dad unless I say so. H said, can you let him pick up the phone and call me sometime? I sid, I ain't got a lock on the phone! He said, I shouldn't have to do all of the calling. I'm like o.k?
H is so controlling. He was drooping S off last nite and noticed the sensor lights by the garage were on. He said that the kids are playing with the light switch by the garage. The next thing I know he is coming in the house with the bulbs in his hand. He says where do you want these? I said, why did you take them out? He said because I don't want the kids playing with them, Their wasting electricity. I'm like , you don't live here do you? Unbelievable!!!!!!!!!!!
