Finally heard from W last Sunday - nothing to report from there except she said she felt weird and sad looking at our photos that I posted of our trip on instagram.
On Remembrance Day I sent her a picture of a poppy (her dad was a veteran) and she replied: Thank you for thinking of us (heart).
Then Today she texts: "Looking forward to you guys coming home. It's very cold and snowy. Son is going to need snow gear ASAP and your winter tires changed over."
I'm not reading into these as she has showed concern for us before and it didn't lead to anything but I still find it odd if she's completely done with me.
My question: If she asks to do something as a family is it ok to go? There is no confirmation of an A (although I consider that likely) and I don't want to put up a giant roadblock if she's making attempts in her own way to spend time with me. If I can do that without expectations I assume that's ok? I feel fairly detached at this point and I'm more concerned with improving things about myself.
I just picked up a part-time job (old company wanted me back) that has the potential to add 50k to my yearly income so with both jobs I'll be working around 40 hours/week making 100k. Financially I wont' need her help at all. I'm in great shape and I've made some changes in my life to be less judgmental and more accepting of others choices. All in all, I'm in a good place to have a better relationship with her or with someone else.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
