W wants to go with her family and I take kids to my family.
Agree to this.
As far as questions,
"Where is W?" H:"There are some things going on and we thought it best if she spent Thanksgiving with her family" "Everything all right?" H:"I can fill you in on the details later" Then change subject.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
