Shame and devastation 2

[Traveler]

She leaves, and within a minute I'm like , hold on I just got played there.
She's been invited out Friday night.

While "Let me think about it" may have been best..

Don't beat yourself up too much, remember if you said "No" to watching the kids, that wouldn't stop her from going out if she really wanted to--it'd just mean she had to find alternate childcare.

[Jdevast]

Thanks guys.
The kicker is this honestly the first time I ever felt she was lying to me.

I always really valued her honesty.

Not sure what to make of this.

[Ready2Change]

...this honestly the first time I ever felt she was lying to me.Not sure what to make of this...

Be proud that you are more aware of things. Use it as a learning experience for next time.

[Augusto]

Thanks guys.
The kicker is this honestly the first time I ever felt she was lying to me.

I always really valued her honesty.

Not sure what to make of this.

I've felt about my W like that for a long time, but now thinking about a lot of things I realized she had been lying to me for a while and I was in denial. About finances, about if "we're ok", etc.

[job]

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