I listen to her whine every day about her job and how her boss is mean and I offer her words of encouragement. But she is not interested in hearing about
#1) I listen to my lady. She needs to talk to feel better. #2) She does not want to hear your words of encouragement. She needs you to understand how she felt through the day. VALIDATE. #3) Thank god she does not want to here about your day. Does talking for 45 minutes about your day make you feel better?? I would rather spend 45 minutes cleaning my motorcycle.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
