I see. Thank you guys. Thank you very much. I have a lot to ask but I want to re read this last batch of posts several times through. I’m ready to get D’d. I just wasn’t sure if I should do it now or wait 4 months.
And I do see how she has offered me zero support through my life. I listen to her whine every day about her job and how her boss is mean and I offer her words of encouragement. But she is not interested in hearing about how I lost 3/4 if a day at work because I had to clock out to talk to oncologist, get new insurance paperwork in order, talk to specialty pharmacy. I get home tired. Have no support system and still manage to shoulder the load without complaining. To the point my boss said “I have no idea how you show up here everyday with a smile on your face. Your always one of the happiest guys in the shop”
But her boss is mean. So I guess that’s what’s important
Also. If I’m not supposed to talk about R. Isn’t talking about getting our own places and who gets what and such count as R talk. Or no