Why be friends? Would a friend treat you the way she has treated you? Is that what friends do? Any friend of mine who has disrespected me that much would no longer be my fried. Civil coparents? Yes. Friends? Certainly not now. Friends don’t treat people the way she does.

I hope you really took in all I wrote to you. You are still very much in limbo only now she is getting the best of both worlds. Lucky her.

My ex and I have been civil coparents for many years. In the past few we have become friendly, but not “friends” he does me favors, I do him favors, we all dine together at times ( including his other woman who has been his wife going into 8 years now) they invited me to thanksgiving my ex has actually wanted to attend concerts with me.... but I have boundaries too. I’ll never forget what he did, although I have forgiven. We are friendly but will never be friends. Our daughter is happy, we work together for her. That’s all that matters.

Last edited by job; 11/13/19 07:01 PM. Reason: edited a word for Ginger