Quote: I see many people on this site whose spouses use the divorce as their defense mechanism. They are afraid that the old way of life will continue, they are not comfortable with change and unsure how to deal with it, they say it a few hundred times hoping to convince themselves that what they are doing is best, etc. The point is, he hasn't done anything about it, so let him say it.
Can I pretend you posted this to me today..sorry nitaf for hijacking, but it does apply to a lot of people on the BB!!
Nitaf--how long has your H been gone? He is moved out right?
