You guys are the best. Always appreciate the viewpoints. Juju- I’ve definitely tried going there. Just own it... I can be unapologetic for my actions because they already think the worst of me. Hmmm.
Own- ugh sorry that you can relate. It’s exhausting. I’m my heart I know it’s about him and his choices. I know I will look back on this time and be ok with what I’ve done/ haven’t done and be at peace with that. That’s what matters. It’s ages though. This does feel like one of those bags I need to unpack before moving along on my journey.
I definitely want to read the attachment book! Thanks for sharing that. I was stretching on my yoga mat this morning and was trying to pin point parts of my childhood that are making me the way I am right now. (Especially with the attachment that you note). I couldnt recall any dynamic or instance, but doesn’t all trauma stem from childhood??? Anyway, I’m not sure therapizing myself works but I’m not opposed to digging deep.
Interestingly, I just got an email from my ex with a cc to his lawyer outlining his thanksgiving travel plans and he’s taking the dog because he’s his emotional support animal. 2 first class tickets for him and a guest. He intentionally cut out the guests name. Must be nice being broke? The court order states that as soon as he gets back I can get the dog for my make-up time... and ex is trying to push it a few days so the dog can adjust at his home.
Nope...the dog can adjust on my time at his other home with me. Thank you very much.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16