It was about 3 mos ago when he said he wanted a D. I said , why do you want a D? This sitch has caused me to reach deep inside myself to make changes for me that will have a positive effect on the M. He said, I see the changes, but you are mostly the same and too little too late. I have since learned to never mention the changes, just let him notice.
The funny thing is he has changed also. When we had BBQ for sons basketball team Saturday, he kept saying thank you, you are doing a good job, great idea, and I am proud of you. He even had to apologize for something he said @ one point. He came on the deck to apologize 2x's to make sure I accepted. He never use to apologize b4. It is so funny that now we are figuring this thing out that he wants out! I think he has a great fear that if he comes home things will just go back to being the same.
