Roo, I dont know what to say to this but thank you for telling us about these tragic aspects of your life. That you've weathered all these tragedies and still are here for your daughter and still going forward is testament to your character and strength.

There is nothing wrong with you - nothing, nothing, nothing! Bad people take advantage of good people.

Do you trust getting in touch with another C to help out? Or maybe get in touch with one of the counsellors from Divorce Busting itself?

We're here for you buddy. Keep us posted frequently with your thoughts and feelings ok.

Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24