Did H just turn and look to you and say, "I see changes but, you are mostly the same. Anyway too little too late!" or was he asked if he saw the changes?
Nonetheless, I agree with Pamela! The mostly the same would directly relate to the fact that you are still trying to get his attention. A little indifference would really turn his head!
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian