Do not challenge the verbal or emotional abuse narrative especially in writing through email communications this can be used potentially in a family court as evidence. She is baiting you to give an admittance of guilt because she is angry with you for whatever reason she's made up in her head. Most likely she's being coach to buy either a paralegal or an attorney four divorce support group for women for counseling that is validating in supporting her narrative. a lot of them feel this way and talk this way and try and entrap you when their love turns cold. Don't even acknowledge it just stick to the parenting plan through email communications only. a lot of them take on the victim mindset and do this a lot it's very common here in a lot of our stitches. weather and there are some legitimacy to her claim or not or gray areas or something in between her feelings being acknowledged by verbal communication and written communication can be used as evidence. Be fair be cooperative be pleasant but do not acknowledge that abuse narrative. Don't let her guilt shame or manipulate you either in giving up any custody any of the marital assets or the marital home. Hopefully and eventually she will cool her jets and die down. Early in my sich it was like this as well as Unichen's and still is. Do not give them any ammunition to work with against you. But be assertive and stand up for yourself if necessary but try not to be too defensive. If it gets to that point set the boundary and end the conversation.
