Your partially correct. You are forgetting about the part of protecting yourself. I hate to say this but not long after you separate an OM is going to show up and like Ginger says you sure enough are not going to want to be supported her and him.
Also not sure where you’re getting if there is om you don’t do or say anything.
I think you’re trying to put together bits and pieces to fit what you want to do.
I think you need to start being honest with yourself.
