LH isn’t that the whole deal with divorce busting. You let the person go. If they are involved with OM you don’t ask or say anything about it. And if she comes back she comes back and if she doesn’t she doesn’t. Right? Isn’t DBing about yourself and making yourself as attractive as possible. Making yourself mentally ok. With a new much more mature look on life? About your own health and well being. And after alllllll that. If it works great. If not great