Oz you never answered my question about what the thrust of the talk with your W was. Did you tell her you are leaving? Filing for D? Or did you just tell her you are "letting go"? I just have a feeling nothing really got resolved in the convo, that it was just a temperature check on your part. Maybe I'm wrong. If it was a "I'm letting you go" talk then you need to back that up with action.
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So now that W knows that I’m letting her go and am not going to hold her back.
What exactly does that mean? What is going to be different after the talk versus before?
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And I’m completely detached but still willing to work on it. This is the perfect setup for DB correct? Because I am truly ok with whatever the outcome.
What if the "outcome" is just to continue in the exact same limbo you've been in for months and months? Because you should not be OK with that. EDIT- and it's not really "limbo" because limbo implies peaceful coexistence. But your W treats you with incredible disrespect.