My feeling is she will now try and start dictating parenting plan.
Is best course of action to openly state: I feel you are trying to dictate all the terms, ( it's clear every time I don't do exactly what she wants, she calls controlling behaviour)
Or do I just hear what she has to say, agree to think about it and seek negotiation.
Huge temptation to call her out on her controlling behaviour and the narrative of abuse.
