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Sandi,

Do you think my W would be thinking the same? She is having an A with another woman. Does that matter?


Could you be a little more specific about what I said? smile As for a spouse having an affair with the same sex partner, I see no difference in how the betrayed spouse should respond. An affair is an affair!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!